Today we’ve got a question about the difference between ungodly and godly soul ties from Megan in Vancouver.
Hey Pastor Lily,
I always thought that soul ties were a bad thing that happened when you slept with someone outside of marriage. I assumed that since I’m a virgin I don’t have any problems with soul ties. But I read your post and you said that there a lot of different kinds of soul ties and that they aren’t necessarily bad. So I’m wondering if your course on breaking soul ties is right for me. I haven’t had any serious romantic relationships but I do have these terrible nightmares about fighting with my mom. Do you think there’s a soul tie issue there? I love my mom, but there is a lot of tension between us and I would like to fix that. What do you suggest?
This is a great question! Last weeks post What are soul ties and how to break them is a good intro to the topic because there are a lot of misconceptions about them. Like you said, a lot of people think that they are a result of sexual relationships.
But, at the most basic level, soul ties are the spiritual threads that connect us to one another. Every relationship has them. So yes, the issues you’re experiencing with your mom and the nightmares are most likely evidence of a godly soul tie issue.
Parent-child relationships are part of God’s design for family and families are the building blocks of society. We can see examples all around us that speak to the devastating consequences that occur when those relationships break down. Satan knows that if he can disrupt these godly soul ties and principal relationships he can cause societies to crumble.
This week I will be talking about how soul ties are formed. In your case, this is a completely natural godly soul tie to have, but it sounds like something got tangled. In the soul tie e-course, we are going to learn how to identify where things went wrong in a relationship and what to do about it. I would strongly recommend that you join the course because we’re going to get into the deeper details there.
For now, I recommend that you begin to pray for God to help you prepare your heart to receive divine healing in your primary relationships. Ask Him to guard you against dreams that do not build up your relationship with your mom. Pray that He would help you to see your mom the way He sees her.
Thanks, Megan. I hope to see you in the course.
You could invite your mom to complete it with you, as I am sure this would speed up the healing process exponentially, and give you a great opportunity to bond.
God Bless You!
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