Let’s Create A Love Life You Love.


I’m more than a relationship coach — I help Christian women transform their love lives and enjoy healthy thriving marriages. My Biblical approach to love and relationships provides an opportunity for you to enjoy the life God designed for you to experience. Be the best version of yourself by adopting the mind of Christ and confidently loving those around you. 


Choose just the services you need, or build an all-inclusive package

Marriage & Relationship Coaching

Are you ready for lasting love, or trying to save a relationship? I'll help you achieve your dream of having a healthy thriving relationship.

Life Coaching Sessions

Whatever your vision is, all things are possible through Christ. We will work designing specific strategies to get you the results you want. 

Weekly Check-ins

Stay on track with regular check-in sessions, ideal for women who need a reliable opportunity to recalibrate and stay on track.

Onsite Seminars

Perfect for women's retreats, workshops or events. If you want to tackle a specific topic or issue, I can create a unique presentation that will meet the spiritual needs of your audience.



"I was feeling flat, friendless and bit empty after working and working day after day on a new business. And you self-love challenge was the truth I needed at just the right time. I thought I needed more friends, but really I needed to love myself and value myself in Christ. 

Thank you for doing God’s work out of love for His children."

Annonymous Client


First, I listen.

I’ll start with an honest chat with you to understand you, your relationships and your heart's desire. Here we’ll identify what makes you unique, and how you can add value to those around you by sharing your God given gifts and talents..  

Then, We Plan.

Together, we’ll talk about your relationships to learn how discover what you can do to help you can help them thrive. Together we will come up with a plan to help you achieve your goals  

Finally, You Take Action.

Our conversations will lead to greater self awarness. We’ll build upon your new insights to develop a plan for you to take action and transform your life. .


I’m Lily Mtongwiza.

I’m a pastor, Christian Relationship coach, a total nerd when it comes to the literature. My obsession is helping others create passionate marriages that honor God and a shining testimony of true love to those around them. I help women create amazing love lives that they're totally excited about so they can change the world around them simply by being in love.

Over the past 4 years, I have been helping Christian women from all over the world improve their relationships…… you are absolutely in the right place! 

Let's talk!

Your first consultation is free.