Let’s Create A Love Life You Love.


We Are More Than This 

You're more than a work in progress. You're already fearfuly and wonderfully made. 100% lovable and totally adored by our Heavenly Father. 

 I'm more than a relationship coach — I help Christian women transform their love lives and enjoy healthy thriving marriages. My Biblical approach to love and relationships provides an opportunity for you to enjoy the life God designed for you to experience. Be the best version of yourself by adopting the mind of Christ and confidently loving those around you. s area



Choose just the services you need, or build an all-inclusive package

Marriage & Relationship Coaching

Are you ready for lasting love, or are you trying to save a relationship? I'll help you achieve your dream of having a healthy thriving relationship.

Life Coaching Sessions

Whatever your vision is, all things are possible through Christ. We will work together to designing specific strategies to create the results you want in life.  

Weekly Coaching Sessions 

Stay on track with regular coaching sessions. Ideal for women who need a reliable opportunity to check-in, recalibrate and stay on track.


Book me as a speaker for your next women's retreat, workshop, conference or events. If you want to tackle a specific topic or issue, I can create a unique presentation that will meet the needs of your audience.


"I was feeling flat, friendless and bit empty after working and working day after day on a new business. And you self-love challenge was the truth I needed at just the right time. I thought I needed more friends, but really I needed to love myself and value myself in Christ. 

Thank you for doing God’s work out of love for His children."

Annonymous Client


First, I listen.

We will start with an honest chat that's all about you; your goals, your relationships and your heart's desire. Here we’ll identify what makes you unique, and how you can live a life full of purpose and add value to those around you by sharing your God given gifts and talents..  

Then, We Plan.

Together, we’ll talk about your life and relationships to figure out a plan that will help you thrive. Together we will come up with a road map to achieving your goals.  

Finally, You Take Action.

Our conversations will lead to greater self awarness. I'll help you build upon your new insights to develop a plan that will transform your life. 

Coaching is one of the greatest investments you can making in the Kingdom of God. You're not just prioritizing your mental health and well being, you're intentionally cultivating the Mind of Christ in you. 


Hi, I’m Lily Mtongwiza.

I’m a pastor, Christian Life & Relationship coach, a wife and mom and total nerd. My obsession is helping others create passionate relationships that honor God and are a testimony of true love to those around them. I help women create amazing love lives that they're totally excited about so they can change the world around them simply by being in love.

Over the past 4 years, I have been helping Christian women from all over the world improve their lives and relationships...

Make no mistake, you're ABSOLUTELY in the right place! 

Let's talk!

Your first coaching session is free.